Recent Communications...

So recently I've done some thinking about different ways of communication because in every relationship, friendship, family relationship, etc...there are many ways to communicate. Each communication depends on how each person wants to get their message across.

I was talking to a friend of mine, Laura, and she and I was talking about how I communicate with my boyfriend. I was telling her that I am really aware of the way we talk to each other. Even when it comes to arguments, I try my best to explain myself clearly, and not scream or yell my message across. When screaming and yelling is a part of a conversation, it brings negativity, and the person will not like what is happening. Screaming and yelling brings out the worse in a conversation because the message doesn't get across then no one will listen to each other. Anyway...long story short...my friend Laura was very surprised at what I said because many couples do not realize that when they are in a relationship. Tentions flare and then the issue doesn't get solved.

I am very happy that I realized that at an early stage in our relationship (my bf and I). It's easy to calm one self down, but it's hard to calm someone else down.

I am glad I have many people's relationship to experience. I always ask my questions and make sure I know how to solve an issue when it is my issue to solve. :)

Communication is the key to any relationship, no matter if it is a one on one, email, text, voicemail, and phone. Each way is a different communication, and that's where you have to choose which one is the best for you. :)