Before I moved here to SF, CA, I had a tough time living at home. I was very negative about myself and about life, I just didn't know why. I have so many positive friends, but I felt like I only had a few close friends. Why?? I did not know. But about 3-4 months before I decided to move, I spoke to a few friends who told me to try my best to keep myself positive. Therefore, I crossed out the negatives in my life, little by little and I felt so much better. At the same time I realized why some people I knew that I thought "were" friends of mine weren't in my life anymore, which was because I was so negative as a person. No one wants to be around someone who is so negative about life. Then, I was told to start a list on a paper of the things I want and the things I want to happen in my life, so I did. Next thing I knew, things in my life started going the way I wanted. I wanted to find a job in the Bay Area, I went on 3 interviews, and I got an offer. I wanted to be with my current boyfriend, which I was able to do. I couldn't be happier when everything turned out the way I wanted to. Most importantly, I wanted to be HAPPY and less stressful. Also, I realized that I'm such a family girl that I couldn't leave my family, but I also realized that I wanted to be a happier person. My family was mainly why I had my negativity in my life, and after moving, I am so much happier as a person and overall person. I found out that it's not only SPEAKING what you want positively, but as you keep on repeating what you want in life, the more you'll FEEL positively in life. We all attract negative energy around us, but we have to be strong to fight that and turn it into a positive energy. So as I started reading back at what I wanted in my life of what I wrote down, a few months after I had moved to San Francisco, CA, I picked up the book called 'The Secret' which I started reading. As I started reading the book, I was so shocked at what the book was about because it was everything I did and more. Some of what the book said was that speak of what you want and focus on it and in turn the Universe will hear what you have to say and things will start to change. I was in awe as I started reading more and more. It's a great book to help someone to start to change their thinking and their life. I have read the book and now I'm reading it for the 2nd time now because I realized that we all have to be in reality and not get over our heads of wanting, wanting, wanting...but be at the core of what you really want and need in life because that's where you'll be at peace. :) I had great friends who supported me and I want to thank my best friend who always supported my decisions (who went to college with me and shared hot dog and water before classes...hahaha), and you know who you are!
Even though, I am where I want to be, there's so much more I need to improve on right now. One is mainly my job...(more to come with that)...I need to be more positive with myself on my job, and also...making more money...I need to focus on that. So if any of you have any suggestions on either one, please send it my way. :) Til next time.... Have a great Friday tomorrow!!!
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