"Your Job is You"

"Inside relationships it's important to first understand who's coming into the relationship, and not just your partner. You need to understand yourself first."

"How can you ever expect anyone else to enjoy your company if you don't enjoy your own company? And so again, the law of attration or THe Secret is about bringing that into your life. You've got to get really, really clear. Here's the question I would ask you to consider: Do you treat yourself the way you want other people to treat you?"

"When you do not treat yourself the way you want others to treat you, you can never change the way things are. Your actions are your powerful thoughts, so if you do not treat yourself with love and respect, you are emitting a signal that is saying you are not important enough, worthy enough, or deserving. That signal will continue to be broadcast, and you will experience more situations of people not treating you well. The people are just the effect. Your thoughts are the cause. You must begin to treat yourself with love and respect, and emit that signal and get on that frequency. Then the law of attraction will move the entire Universe, and your life will be full of people who love and respect you."

When I first read these words, I realized to myself that I've never loved myself as I was growing up. I didn't know how to love myself and cherish myself. Up until I was in a car accident in 2002 where I was taken to the hospital, I realized that no matter how I look, I need to love myself and treat myself the way I want other's to treat me. I need to cherish myself, before someone can cherish me or love me. I think it was a long journey to where I am now, and I thank every bit to my family and friends who all supported me. Mostly I am thankful of my boyfriend. He's pretty supportive and always keeping me smile. I can't stop smiling when I see him now that he's lighted up my life very much since I've been with him.

Think about what you're doing in your life, and if you love it or not. If you don't, learn to change it to make you where you want to be. Picture how you want your life to be and little by little, things in your life will change. :)